Friday, March 6, 2009

Sometimes I wonder if girls and guys my age really know what love is. Are we just infatuated or is there really matured feeling growing from one soul to the next. I do not know for sure but it definitely feels real and I think I speak for a lot of us. Many however let those feeling get the best of them and they do things and act in ways that they normally would not, and probably should not have. Making vast and vital decisions about your life at a young age is dangerous and not good in my opinion. Going to extreme extents to see and be with someone and misbehaving does not really prove that you have this undying love for someone, it just shoes you are vulnerable. Teen girls in particular should be careful, because nine out of ten times they are the ones who walk out hurt and disappointed and not to mention with a broken heart to be mended, and this is there downfall. After having a heart break they then look towards another immature guy to mend it. One thing that us young females should remember is to not try to get too serious and think that whoever you are with is the one you are going to marry. Leave room for change and do not let the relationship get t he best of you. Most guys our age or even older are not matured fully and are not looking for a serious committed relationship and maybe we shouldn't be ether.Let's just have fun for now and worry about marriage when we are actually old enough.
Friends are one of the most important aspects in my life, so when one if them is hurt and is very upset about something i tend to take that very personal. I try to always be there for them at any cost, in any way, and no matter what else I have going on. They depend on me as I do with them and I never want to leave with a moment where they've needed my comfort or advice and I can not be there for them. We've all been through so much together and know each other like the back of our hands. In a way and most days I think we are a major part of each other. There is not one day that goes by that we do not all check on each other if not in school or share our feeling to each other or just simply share a laugh or a lot of laughs. They are fun and enjoyable, and I always know that they can and will be my source of contentment when things are not going good, or just simply how I wish. On a sentimental level I truly do love them in a sisterly kind of way. I do believe that my life would be very harder and not to mention dull without them. I am not sure where this topic came from today, I guess it was just in my heart.
I definitely do not think there is ever a reason to help someone kill themselves, no matter how sick they are and do not want to live anymore. If anything these doctors need to be talking the patients out of ending their life and they should live their last days to the fullest. I wouldn't really classify it as murder but it is still killing another human being and it is wrong whether they wanted it or not. The doctors that are involved with this and do think it is okay should be looked into themselves because to me there is certainly something not sound and right with them. I don't see how helping a person kill themselves is helpful. Instead they should be spending time with loved ones, fulfilling last wishes and stick it out until it is really there time to go. No one's life should be taken by the hands of another at any cost.