Friday, March 6, 2009

Sometimes I wonder if girls and guys my age really know what love is. Are we just infatuated or is there really matured feeling growing from one soul to the next. I do not know for sure but it definitely feels real and I think I speak for a lot of us. Many however let those feeling get the best of them and they do things and act in ways that they normally would not, and probably should not have. Making vast and vital decisions about your life at a young age is dangerous and not good in my opinion. Going to extreme extents to see and be with someone and misbehaving does not really prove that you have this undying love for someone, it just shoes you are vulnerable. Teen girls in particular should be careful, because nine out of ten times they are the ones who walk out hurt and disappointed and not to mention with a broken heart to be mended, and this is there downfall. After having a heart break they then look towards another immature guy to mend it. One thing that us young females should remember is to not try to get too serious and think that whoever you are with is the one you are going to marry. Leave room for change and do not let the relationship get t he best of you. Most guys our age or even older are not matured fully and are not looking for a serious committed relationship and maybe we shouldn't be ether.Let's just have fun for now and worry about marriage when we are actually old enough.

2 comments:

  1. Under all the social stuff, you are talking human biology. Studies have shown the feelings that we call love are the same, but you are correct that with maturity, there is a deeper commitment that exends beyond the elemental biology. Passion supposedly lasts for three years. You have your head on straight.

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  2. I so agree with this blog..and actually it helped me realize the relationship i have now is one i need to enjoy for the time spent and not worry about the time to come because only time will tell what is real or not so i totally agree with this blog for its honesty!

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